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My Student is Smart.
Why aren’t they thriving in college?

Student struggling with her work at a park

One of the more surprising findings in educational research is that academic preparation, while necessary, is a weaker predictor of college success than most people assume. Behavioral and psychological factors matter more. A longitudinal study published in Learning and Individual Differences found that self-regulation, help-seeking behavior, and metacognitive awareness collectively explained more variation in GPA outcomes than standardized test scores alone. This pattern holds across institutional types.

The help-seeking paradox is especially worth understanding. High achievers who succeeded through independent effort in high school frequently treat self-reliance as part of their identity. For these students, asking for help carries an implicit threat to their self-concept; they interpret needing assistance as a sign of inadequacy rather than as a normal part of learning. The practical result is significant: they wait until problems have compounded, reducing the effectiveness of any help. Struggling students utilize faculty office hours less frequently than students performing adequately, exactly the inverse of what would produce the best outcomes.

Soft skills follow a similar pattern. Collaborative communication, conflict resolution, and adaptive time management are often dismissed as secondary to "real" academic work. Yet college places students in contexts where these skills are load-bearing. Group projects, seminar discussions, and independent research all require interpersonal and organizational capacities that formal instruction rarely builds explicitly. Employers have taken notice: a 2023 National Association of Colleges and Employers survey found that critical thinking, professionalism, and teamwork ranked above technical knowledge in employer hiring criteria.

Carol Dweck's growth mindset research at Stanford often gets reduced to motivational shorthand, but its more substantive function is worth understanding. A growth orientation changes how students process setbacks at a cognitive level. Students with a fixed mindset tend to interpret a poor exam grade as confirming evidence of their ability ceiling. Students with a growth orientation treat the same grade as diagnostic data, something to analyze and respond to strategically. This isn't optimism; it's a functional difference in how information gets processed, and it has measurable downstream effects on persistence and course correction.

For students entering college, the practical takeaway is this: the skills most likely to determine your outcomes can be acquired, but only if you treat your own learning process as something worth paying attention to.

Building the Right Skills

Thinking Critically in College

Paying attention to how we think and learn is metacognition. Students who learn to practice it through their college years will get more out of their college education, and may be better prepared for a lot of decisions they will make down the road.

There are specific ways to develop your ability to improve your learning, and some of them are covered in the first chapter of my book, Thinking Critically in College: The Essential Handbook for Student Success (Manhattan Book Group, 2026). Other subjects covered include: effective study skills, reading deeply, quantitative reasoning, disciplinary thinking, and research skills.

“Thinking Critically in College details the exemplifies the differences between high school and college. Students who read this book before coming to college will have an advantage over those who don't.”

Lee Cuba, author of Practice for Life: Making Decisions in College

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